First published 2012
John Elder Robison opens up about growing up with Autism Spectrum Disorder before anyone knew what it was. His intelligence landed him work with toy companies and rock bands, but his tendency to blurt out random comments and avoid eye contact alienated teachers and peers. By age forty, when doctors finally gave his condition a name, Robison had already built a toolkit of survival strategies that helped him navigate social situations and achieve professional success. He breaks down practical techniques for reading people in uncertain moments, understanding why manners matter, and using intense focus to master challenging skills. Robison tackles the daily realities of dealing with bullies, deciding when to blend in versus standing out, and turning unusual talents into advantages. His advice targets anyone who feels different and struggles with the communication barriers that can hide remarkable abilities. Through candid storytelling, he demonstrates how every person can forge meaningful relationships and find their own route to success.
Genres: autobiography, mental-illness, non-fiction, disability
Vibes: emotional, intimate, thought-provoking
Tropes: coming-of-age, overcoming-adversity
304 pages · Paperback · Crown
Content warnings: mental-illness