Becoming a Man

by Paul Monette

First published 2004

Paul grows up in a small New England town during the 1950s, earning perfect grades and succeeding in every social and academic pursuit. Yet he carries a secret he cannot even admit to himself. He works desperately to appear straight, to become the man everyone expects him to be. This performance continues through his years at an Ivy League college and during his bohemian adventures in Europe. He engages in relationships with women that leave him empty, while nursing hopeless attractions he cannot name. Throughout these years, Paul remains tormented by something he has never witnessed but dreams about constantly: two men together, in love and joyful. His journey toward accepting his true self unfolds through years of self-deception and painful attempts to fit a mold that was never meant for him.

Genres: american-fiction, 20th-century, coming-of-age, biography-memoir, gay-fiction, academic

Vibes: emotional, intimate, thought-provoking

Tropes: coming-of-age, self-acceptance

Setting: New England

Period: 1950s

304 pages · Paperback · Perennial

Content warnings: homophobia

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