by Eve Rodsky
First published 2019
Eve Rodsky was drowning in invisible work. She handled countless unpaid tasks that kept her household running while her husband remained largely unaware of the mental load she carried. When she compiled her "Sh*t I Do List" and shared it with her partner, his lackluster response made clear that identifying the problem wasn't enough. She needed a concrete solution. Rodsky interviewed over five hundred people to understand how families actually manage their responsibilities and developed a practical system with four core rules. Her Fair Play method assigns 100 specific household tasks with clear ownership and accountability. The book provides conversation starters for couples and helps families decide who takes charge of everything from laundry to homework planning. Rodsky argues that winning this rebalancing act saves time and reduces anxiety while helping partners reclaim their individual interests and passions. The goal is creating space for personal growth alongside a more equitable home life.
Genres: family, contemporary, relationships, non-fiction
Vibes: intimate, thought-provoking
Tropes: found-family
Audio CD · Penguin Audio