If You Have to Cry, Go Outside

by Kelly Cutrone

First published 2010

Kelly Cutrone has built one of fashion's most influential PR firms by refusing to compromise her authentic self. She has ejected disruptive guests from runway shows, compelled reality TV personalities to make tough personnel decisions, and mentored countless women navigating one of the world's most ruthless industries. Cutrone argues that today's women face fundamentally different challenges than previous generations and need new strategies to thrive. She rejects the cultural pressure to chase an idealized "perfect life" and instead advocates for discovering your genuine desires and pursuing them relentlessly. Her approach combines brutal honesty with practical guidance on building a personal brand, finding your supportive community, and recognizing when apparent failures signal breakthroughs. Cutrone challenges readers to silence external expectations, embrace their inner voice, and sometimes fake confidence until it becomes real. This guide offers both inspiration and concrete tools for women starting careers or reinventing themselves, delivered through Cutrone's characteristically direct style.

Genres: business, non-fiction, 21st-century, fashion

Vibes: emotional, intimate, thought-provoking

Tropes: inspirational, self-discovery

Period: 21st-Century

208 pages · Hardcover · HarperOne

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