by Alan Alda
First published 2017
Alan Alda spent decades searching for better ways to help people connect and understand each other. His journey began while hosting PBS's Scientific American Frontiers, where he interviewed thousands of scientists and learned to translate complex ideas for general audiences. Alda wondered if these same techniques could improve communication for everyone. He draws from his acting background, improvisation training, and recent scientific research to explore how empathy serves as the foundation for genuine understanding. The book examines moments when poor communication creates problems, both minor and significant. Alda shows readers how to listen with their eyes, read facial expressions, craft compelling stories, eliminate confusing jargon, and sync with others during difficult conversations. He presents practical exercises and games designed to strengthen our natural ability to understand what others think and feel. This guide offers tools for better relationships with family, friends, romantic partners, doctors, and colleagues across all areas of life.
Genres: psychology, self-help, non-fiction, communication
Vibes: emotional, intimate, thought-provoking
Tropes: self-improvement
213 pages · Hardcover · Random House