Not Becoming My Mother

by Ruth Reichl

First published 2009

Ruth Reichl's mother, Miriam, had big dreams of becoming a doctor, but instead opened a bookstore and settled into a conventional life. When Reichl delves into her mother's diaries, she discovers a vibrant woman trapped by societal expectations. As Reichl pieces together Miriam's story, she grapples with the sacrifices her mother made to ensure Reichl's own freedom. This intimate portrait reveals the quiet rebellion and hard-won self-acceptance that Miriam passed on to her daughter.

Genres: literary-fiction, family-life, feminism, biography-memoir

Vibes: emotional, intimate, thought-provoking

Tropes: found-family, unreliable-narrator

Setting: United States

128 pages · Hardcover · Penguin Press

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